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Really bad day.

Warren Holybee

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I don't want to go into it, but I had to resign my job today after more than 6 months of my boss lying to me. I couldn't cope anymore. Today was to be my annual employee evaluation, and I expect it would have been fine. But a quick discussion beforehand and I decided I needed to give notice and the evaluation didn't even happen.

I have no idea what I am going to do, or if I will be able to keep the boat. Lot's to figure out.
 
Warren, I'm sorry to hear this. I know from what you've said in the past, your job situation wasn't pleasant. Hoping the best for you! And Eliana.
Mitchell
 
In the end I am sure it will be better. Thinking this morning, I actually have a lot of options, and 2 of them don't involve selling the boat.
 
I didn't want to say things will be better. Seemed a bit cliche. But I'm glad you feel this way. I had a similar situation years ago. Leaving tha company and situation was the best event!
 
So I will run my ideas by you guys to see what you all think.

1. I had been planning to work on Eliana the next 6 months before joining the HaHa in October. The 2 big items would have been be a new windlass (surprisingly I have no windlass at all) and a cutter stay. Also need a new liferaft, as mine was due for service service so I sold it. The cost of service plus what I got from the sale is basically the cost of a new raft. After the HaHa I would cross the Pacific. If I stay in California for 6 months without any reasonable income, I'd spend my kitty on the unreasonably high cost of living and not be able to afford that trip. But, I realized I could leave ASAP. I would miss Mexico as the sailing season is wrapping up there, but I could cross the Pacific in May or June. I would have to rush to sell off my remaining stuff over the next few weeks.

2. Another option is to get a crappy (but less stressful) minimum wage job. I can stay for 6 months with family. ( I wish I could liveaboard here, but that is another issue and partly why I want so badly to leave) Minimum wage would cover my slip fees and food, and minimal of anything else. I could then leave with the HaHa in 6 months, but still without making the improvements I want.

3. Get into deliveries. I have wanted to do this for a long time, as I have both the sailing skills, and also the repair and maintenance skills to be very good at it. Want I am not good at is finding business clients. I am the worst salesperson ever. I have tried to run my own business a few times in life, and always failed hard because of that fact, not because of my skills doing whatever the business was. So, it is a big gamble, but I would love it and it could support me for 6 months or longer if it pays off. I could also potentially continue this leaving Eliana in Fiji or NZ while I was off doing it.

4. Sell Eliana, and move on. I have some open ended jobs offers in Virginia and in Eureka. There is a possibility I could take my boat to Eureka. I don't think the sailing is very good there, and I don't know if the marinas have any space. I think it is a better spot for fishing boats. Not sure, actually. But looking online shows the marina has a waiting list. I could live aboard in Virginia, but the Job offer I have expires in August. I couldn't get Eliana there before then, and plus the hurricane season. I could sell Eliana and buy another boat on the east coast, but I expect I would go backwards in terms of condition and refitting that I have done.

5. Sell Eliana and hitchhike/sail on other peoples boats. From a pure economic standpoint, this makes sense. I would have the most amount of cash as I left the US, and also have the least amount of expenses during my travels. But I would lose the freedom of sailing on my own vessel and setting my own sailing schedule.

Thoughts?
 
Hello Warren... wish you all the best. life has ups and downs. Try not to rush.. i just got back to the forum after a wile and see you been trough a lot.
Allow me to say... When the winds change we trim our sails. And seemts like its time to reef. After the storm the sun will come out again... Im shure you know all this, but we forget. Take a big breath and tackle it. Change is the only constant.. and soon it will be in your favor and perhaps this is to your advantage. An oportunity in disguise.
You got this man. You are Warren , and you cross oceans!

I like the idea of taking off to Fiji or a place you can live abord for now. You got skills , you can have a deal with a marina and work there. Perhaps on a fishing boat like i been doing . No long comute or any of that headache. There is a lot of guys that cant take care of their boats for lack of knowlage or of flex ability. They pay gladly not to go on the compartments. Again wish you all the best. May good fortune be at your side and lady luck smile at you. Take care.
 
Great news! I got a call from a company I applied to 8 months ago and had written off and they offered me a job for $25k/year more than what I had been making, with better working hours. I had to accept it of course, and I think life is going to be much better in 2024.
:)
 
Hope you get a good person to report to. Will you stay in the Bay Area?
Yeah. The new place is only 1 block away from the old place. I will be getting a nicer apt, but still staying nearby and walking to work. Even with the nicer apt, I am figuring I will net $600-$700 more spendable cash after taxes and deductions.
 
Hi Warren - I missed this whole thread, and very happy to hear you got a new, *better* gig! Talk about awesome timing!
Congrats!
Does that mean you're back on track for the Ha Ha? I know it's kinda tough to take that much time off on a new job.
 
I don't know. I never planned to take time off work, but to resign and do the puddle jump after. I should be in an even better financial position to do that now. But not sure I should, if I like this job and am happy with it and the hours, maybe continuing to grow a cruising kitty and skipping this year is a better plan.
 
I also missed this thread. I am so glad you had a soft landing Warren. A little extra money never hurts the sailing kitty. The only advice I was going to give: watch out for crewing on others' boats or taking on unknown crew on your own vessel. I have a stock of horror stories from those who tried that: the most recent being one where the crew had to mutiny and hogtie the owner/skipper in order to get safely to port.
 
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